What if the stress, chaos, and self-sabotage you keep bumping into are exactly what a hidden part of you wants?

In this solo episode, I explore the powerful concept from the book, “Existential Kink,” that “having is a form of wanting” and reveal how your mind can secretly crave the very patterns that hold you back.

Through a raw personal story and a three-step framework, you’ll learn how to uncover hidden programs that create stress and sabotage in your golf game, business, and life, so you can finally break free and play with calm, confidence, and clarity.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What “having is a form of wanting” means for your golf game and life
How early programming creates today’s patterns of chaos, fear, and urgency
A three-step method (Acknowledge, Accept, Act) to shift stubborn habits
How curiosity + breath turn discomfort into data you can use
Why identity fear keeps you “almost there” (breaking 80, scaling revenue)
A 15-minute journal exercise to map stressors and rewrite beliefs

If you’ve been “almost” breaking 80, “almost” scaling the business, or “almost” following up with hot leads, this will help you see why—and how to finally play free.

Get your pencils ready and start listening.

P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here.

Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course

High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching

Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential.

He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential.

Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course.

Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist

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