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What is a “Side”? | Top, Bottom & Side Explained by Gay Rugby Players | Ep 48

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What is a “Side”? | Top, Bottom & Side Explained by Gay Rugby Players | Ep 48

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May 11, 202618:43

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What is a “Side” | Gay dating terminology explained by gay rugby playersThis episode starts with a question that’s been showing up more in dating conversations and apps lately: what does it actually mean to be a “side”? We break down the basics of “top,” “bottom,” and the newer term “side,” which refers to guys who are into intimacy, but don’t include bottom or top in what they want.We talk about labels, communication, and where preference ends and misunderstanding begins.Is being a side selfish? Or is that just what it looks like when people aren’t familiar with the term yet? At the end of the day, it’s about how people define themselves—and how we talk about what we want without judgment.
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