Loading episode…
Loading episode…

Episode context
Listen here or keep browsing the show and related sport coverage from here.
🧠 Want Coach Kim as your personal hockey IQ coach this season? Join The Orange Machine and learn how to think the game better.
You’re yelling “Pass!” or “Skate!” because you want to help—but could those instructions be making it harder for your players to learn? In this episode, Coach Kim shares why constant “yelling and telling” can disrupt focus, limit decision-making and undermine confidence. Drawing on her own coaching experience and an unexpected lesson from the squash court, she explains how to give players more room to think, compete and grow.
In this episode:
Why even well-intentioned yelling can hurt more than it helps.
How directing every play takes away opportunities to develop Hockey IQ.
Why players need to learn from mistakes and own their great decisions.
The difference between useful team cues and constant instructions.
How to turn what you see in games into better teaching at practice.
A candid message for coaches and parents: teach in practice, trust in games and let players learn.
SHARE: Please feel free to share this episode with any coaches, parents, teams or associations that need to take their communication to the next level.
Next listen
All from The Total Female Hockey Podcast →
Next listen
Making Plays Under Pressure
Listen guide
"Stop Yelling. Start Trusting." is an episode of The Total Female Hockey Podcast. Runtime 18 min. Published October 7, 2026. Hit play above to stream it here, or open the free Spot Sports app for background play and offline downloads.