Pressure doesn’t have to create panic. Sometimes it can create your best performance, if you coach the week the right way. Today we reflect on two powerful lessons from Sam Vesty, head coach of Northampton Saints, shared in our new release How to Be a Great Coach: Lessons from the World’s Best Coaches, Volume 2. If you lead a team, coach athletes, or manage people in high-stakes moments, these ideas translate fast.

First, we unpack “joy and clarity” as a finals-week strategy. Sam’s goal is freedom, not fear: bring players back to the wide-eyed kid who fell in love with the game. From revealing the final team with childhood photos to asking a simple question (“What would your 10-year-old self want?”), the point is to shift attention away from the scoreboard and onto controllables like intent, effort, and playing with heads up. We also talk about keeping training normal and fun, addressing nerves early, then clearing mental clutter by introducing minimal new tactics.

Second, we dig into confident decision making and the line that stops people in their tracks: “Decisive and wrong is better than passive and right.” Sam explains why hesitation is the real enemy in rugby, how overcoaching can erode belief, and how psychological safety helps players learn faster. We finish with a practical lens for feedback: treat skill errors as learning and call out effort errors without crushing confidence.

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