When a young hitter goes from BP hero to game-day ghost, the issue usually isn’t mechanics—it’s how we frame failure. In this episode, Joey Myers shows parents and coaches how to turn strikeouts and whiffs into learning fuel using progressive failure exposure, a five-minute Three-Miss Challenge, and three simple metrics that actually predict improvement—so cage swings finally show up under the lights.

What You’ll Learn

The hidden pressure loop: Why “fix-it” coaching after misses backfires and how to protect confidence without coddling.
Progressive failure exposure: Treat misses like strength training for confidence—each failure becomes data, not drama.
Ditch batting average as the compass: Track Quality-Contact %, Pitch-Selection Success, and Competitive At-Bats to measure real development.
Two-strike compete framework: Reframe “don’t strike out” into “win the battle”—extend counts, fight off pitches, punish mistakes.
Parent language that lowers stress: Short cues for the sideline and the one-word car-ride check-in that replaces postgame lectures.
The 5-minute drill you can run tonight: The Three-Miss Challenge to normalize failure and free the swing.
Real-world example: How a 10U hitter shed two-strike fear and found better contact once results stopped being the identity.

Why This Matters Now

Youth seasons are short, emotions run hot, and batting average swings wildly. Teaching kids to tolerate and learn from failure builds resilience, clearer decisions, and contact that shows up when it counts—today and long-term.

Quick Start: Run This Tonight

Three-Miss Challenge (5 min): Ask your hitter to “collect” 3 misses on tee or front toss. Celebrate each miss, log a quick feel note, reset. Watch tension drop and quality contact rise.
Track 3 numbers for two weeks:
1. Quality-Contact % (squared balls with playable trajectory)
2. Pitch-Selection Success (green swings, yellow manage)
3. Competitive ABs (extend, fight, move runners)

Featured HPL Resources

Swing Shift – 5–7 minute sessions that train progressive failure exposure, pitch decisions, and two-strike compete with pressure-free parent language.
RocketHitting Formula – Short, repeatable game-sim sessions that turn process metrics into hard contact under the lights.

If this episode helped you reframe failure and cut the postgame stress, follow/subscribe and share it with a fellow parent or your staff. For step-by-step drills, scorecards, and ready-to-run practice blocks, visit HittingPerformanceLab.

Jake Meyers

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