In this episode Tommy sits down with David Dwight to talk about golf as more than a pastime. Together they explore how the game reveals what’s happening inside us (our mindset, emotions, and even our character). Whether you’re battling a big number on the scorecard, walking the Old Course at St. Andrews, or teeing it up with three generations of family, this episode shows how golf can deepen self-awareness and joy while pointing to something bigger than the game itself.

Key themes you’ll hear:

Why golf demands both mental and emotional discipline
How ego and expectations impact performance and enjoyment
The surprising ways golf exposes character and fosters growth
Transcendent moments on the course (from Scotland to Pebble Beach)
How golf strengthens relationships and bridges generations

Timestamps:

(0:00) The Unique Experience of Golf

(2:52) The Relationship Between Golf and Emotions

(6:05) The Mental Game of Golf

(9:05) Self-Awareness and Golf

(12:00) The Intersection of Mental and Emotional Challenges

(14:58) Ego and Honest Assessment in Golf

(17:50) The Role of Self-Control in Golf

(21:04) Enjoyment and Improvement Through Self-Awareness

(30:42) The Dual Nature of Self-Awareness

(31:12) Golf as a Source of Enjoyment

(35:47) Expectations vs. Reality in Golf

(37:59) Identity Beyond Golf

(39:05) Distortions and Perceptions in Golf

(41:51) Character Development Through Golf

(44:24) The Challenge and Transcendence of Golf

(51:29) The Unique Nature of Golf as a Family Game

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